Situational leadership: adapting without losing coherence

14/10/2025
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Situational leadership: adapting without losing coherence

Managers don't always have the luxury of leading a homogeneous team. Between a newly recruited member of staff, an expert who has been autonomous for three years and a colleague who has lost motivation after a setback, you often have to deal with very different profiles... sometimes in the same day.

Situational management allows you to adjust your style without losing yourself in inconsistency. It's based on a simple principle: adapt your posture to the level of maturity and motivation of each employee. This model gives managers the flexibility they need to support, empower and develop their teams, without ever losing sight of the common direction.

1. Adapting your style is not an option when managing a diverse team

Not everyone has the same needs

Let's take two very concrete examples:

  • Camille has just arrived and is discovering the tools, the culture and the projects. If we leave her alone with vague instructions, she may hesitate or burn out.
  • As for Yassine, he knows his perimeter inside out. He hates it when people come up behind him to check his choices.

Managing these two profiles in the same way is bound to frustrate one of them. Adapting one's style is not a sign of weakness: it's a sign of managerial maturity, and a prerequisite for developing each person's skills.

What situational leadership can do for you 

There's nothing theoretical about this type of approach. It allows you to :

  • Support without stifling: by giving extra support to an employee who needs it from time to time.
  • Letting go without giving up: leaving a clear framework to those who already have the reins.
  • Better distribution of time: instead of giving the same level of attention to everyone, the manager doses it according to the situation and each person's level of maturity.

There's nothing theoretical about situational leadership. It's an agile management method that helps managers to support without suffocating, to let go without giving up, and to better allocate their time. By tailoring his support to real needs, he becomes more effective and fairer.

2. The model in practice: simple, but not simplistic

A 4-style matrix, based on autonomy and motivation

Situational management crosses two dimensions: the level of autonomy and the level of employee motivation. Four management styles emerge: directive, persuasive, participative and delegative. Each style corresponds to a different degree of support and initiative-taking.

The 4 leadership styles

Concrete examples:

  • When Clara starts work on a new project, the manager cuts out the assignment, sets the stages and checks in regularly: a directive posture.
  • When Marc knows the subject well but has doubts about the method, we discuss, adjust and co-construct: a participative style.
  • When Julie has been running a project autonomously for months, the manager remains available without intervening: a delegative posture.

These adjustments are not arbitrary: they directly support skills development and reinforce mutual trust.

The right style depends on the situation, not the person

This point is often misunderstood, even by experienced managers. It's not a question of "classifying" employees into fixed boxes. "He's a junior, so I remain directive" or "She's autonomous, so I don't worry about her anymore." That would be too rigid a reading of work dynamics.

An employee doesn't have a management style assigned for life. What counts is the context, the task, the level of pressure, and the expectations of the moment.

Let's take an example: Nadia, an experienced project manager, manages her usual portfolio perfectly. But when she's assigned to a strategic project with a high level of exposure to the Executive Committee, she has doubts, moves more slowly, and makes more demands. Coaching or increased participation may be useful during this period, before returning to a more delegative mode.

The coaching style must be adapted to the task, the moment and the employee's state of mind. And things can change quickly: in the space of a few weeks, the same person can go from needing a lot of supervision to being very autonomous... or vice versa.

The manager's real job is not to apply a recipe, but to make an ongoing diagnosis, taking the following elements into account:

  • Is the person competent in this area?
  • Is she motivated? Confident?
  • Is the framework clear?
  • Does she need structure or space right now?

In short, it's not a question of finding the right style for each person, but of adopting the type of leadership adapted to the situation, taking into account the level of maturity on a given subject.

3. How to avoid confusion when adapting your style

Always make your position clear

Adapting your style is essential, but dangerous if done silently. A change in tone or level of involvement can be interpreted as a disavowal, a lack of confidence or a micro-sanction. And when nothing is said, employees fill in the blanks themselves, often with unflattering assumptions.

Example: "I'm more present on this subject because it's sensitive for the customer. My goal is for you to be autonomous on it within a month."

Saying what we do, and why we do it, defuses misunderstandings, avoids tension, and builds an adult relationship with the managerial posture. It also strengthens the relationship of trust, and clarifies the steps towards greater autonomy.

Naming the rules of the game (clearly and often)

The best managers leave no doubt as to who decides what. They set clear rules, adapted to the context:

  • "On this project, you make the operational decisions. If it affects the budget, we talk about it together."
  • "On recruitment, you do the interviews on your own. I make the final decision."

This clarity of decision-making allows everyone to know where they stand, and avoids interpretations. It can be formalized verbally, in an e-mail summary, or through a simple role sheet. It's not bureaucratic: it's reassuring.

Remain consistent in content, even if the form varies

Just because a manager adapts his level of involvement doesn't mean he's changing course. Objectives, priorities and quality criteria must remain stable. It is this stability that enables the team to find its bearings, even when the form of support varies from one person or subject to another.

A manager can switch from a directive to a delegative stance without calling into question the collective vision or expectations. What counts is consistency: "My support changes because the situation evolves, not because I change my mind". The implicit message: "My support adjusts, but our direction remains clear."

4. What can HR do to support this managerial posture?

Equipping managers (without overloading them)

Situational management doesn't require 5 days' training. It's based on a simple understanding of situations and the ability to speak clearly about them. What makes the difference is not theory, but putting it into practice at the right moment, with the right words.

HR can :

These tools enable us to better support managers in their day-to-day decision-making, without drowning them in abstract models.

Value the ability to adjust, not to control everything

Some managers think they have to master everything to be credible. But knowing when to support, when to let go and when to come back is a sign of maturity, not hesitancy.

It is useful for managerial culture to value :

  • The ability to explain posture choices.
  • Adjusting to the situation, not the mood.
  • The idea that there is no single "right posture", but a posture appropriate to each phase of work and each profile.

Situational leadership is neither an HR gimmick nor a fixed model. It's a practice that relies on listening, clarity and the ability to evolve one's coaching according to maturity, needs and context. The challenge is not to choose a style once and for all, but to keep a clear line in your objectives while remaining agile in your posture.

Managers don't always have the luxury of leading a homogeneous team. Between a newly recruited member of staff, an expert who has been autonomous for three years and a colleague who has lost motivation after a setback, you often have to deal with very different profiles... sometimes in the same day.

Situational management allows you to adjust your style without losing yourself in inconsistency. It's based on a simple principle: adapt your posture to the level of maturity and motivation of each employee. This model gives managers the flexibility they need to support, empower and develop their teams, without ever losing sight of the common direction.

1. Adapting your style is not an option when managing a diverse team

Not everyone has the same needs

Let's take two very concrete examples:

  • Camille has just arrived and is discovering the tools, the culture and the projects. If we leave her alone with vague instructions, she may hesitate or burn out.
  • As for Yassine, he knows his perimeter inside out. He hates it when people come up behind him to check his choices.

Managing these two profiles in the same way is bound to frustrate one of them. Adapting one's style is not a sign of weakness: it's a sign of managerial maturity, and a prerequisite for developing each person's skills.

What situational leadership can do for you 

There's nothing theoretical about this type of approach. It allows you to :

  • Support without stifling: by giving extra support to an employee who needs it from time to time.
  • Letting go without giving up: leaving a clear framework to those who already have the reins.
  • Better distribution of time: instead of giving the same level of attention to everyone, the manager doses it according to the situation and each person's level of maturity.

There's nothing theoretical about situational leadership. It's an agile management method that helps managers to support without suffocating, to let go without giving up, and to better allocate their time. By tailoring his support to real needs, he becomes more effective and fairer.

2. The model in practice: simple, but not simplistic

A 4-style matrix, based on autonomy and motivation

Situational management crosses two dimensions: the level of autonomy and the level of employee motivation. Four management styles emerge: directive, persuasive, participative and delegative. Each style corresponds to a different degree of support and initiative-taking.

The 4 leadership styles

Concrete examples:

  • When Clara starts work on a new project, the manager cuts out the assignment, sets the stages and checks in regularly: a directive posture.
  • When Marc knows the subject well but has doubts about the method, we discuss, adjust and co-construct: a participative style.
  • When Julie has been running a project autonomously for months, the manager remains available without intervening: a delegative posture.

These adjustments are not arbitrary: they directly support skills development and reinforce mutual trust.

The right style depends on the situation, not the person

This point is often misunderstood, even by experienced managers. It's not a question of "classifying" employees into fixed boxes. "He's a junior, so I remain directive" or "She's autonomous, so I don't worry about her anymore." That would be too rigid a reading of work dynamics.

An employee doesn't have a management style assigned for life. What counts is the context, the task, the level of pressure, and the expectations of the moment.

Let's take an example: Nadia, an experienced project manager, manages her usual portfolio perfectly. But when she's assigned to a strategic project with a high level of exposure to the Executive Committee, she has doubts, moves more slowly, and makes more demands. Coaching or increased participation may be useful during this period, before returning to a more delegative mode.

The coaching style must be adapted to the task, the moment and the employee's state of mind. And things can change quickly: in the space of a few weeks, the same person can go from needing a lot of supervision to being very autonomous... or vice versa.

The manager's real job is not to apply a recipe, but to make an ongoing diagnosis, taking the following elements into account:

  • Is the person competent in this area?
  • Is she motivated? Confident?
  • Is the framework clear?
  • Does she need structure or space right now?

In short, it's not a question of finding the right style for each person, but of adopting the type of leadership adapted to the situation, taking into account the level of maturity on a given subject.

3. How to avoid confusion when adapting your style

Always make your position clear

Adapting your style is essential, but dangerous if done silently. A change in tone or level of involvement can be interpreted as a disavowal, a lack of confidence or a micro-sanction. And when nothing is said, employees fill in the blanks themselves, often with unflattering assumptions.

Example: "I'm more present on this subject because it's sensitive for the customer. My goal is for you to be autonomous on it within a month."

Saying what we do, and why we do it, defuses misunderstandings, avoids tension, and builds an adult relationship with the managerial posture. It also strengthens the relationship of trust, and clarifies the steps towards greater autonomy.

Naming the rules of the game (clearly and often)

The best managers leave no doubt as to who decides what. They set clear rules, adapted to the context:

  • "On this project, you make the operational decisions. If it affects the budget, we talk about it together."
  • "On recruitment, you do the interviews on your own. I make the final decision."

This clarity of decision-making allows everyone to know where they stand, and avoids interpretations. It can be formalized verbally, in an e-mail summary, or through a simple role sheet. It's not bureaucratic: it's reassuring.

Remain consistent in content, even if the form varies

Just because a manager adapts his level of involvement doesn't mean he's changing course. Objectives, priorities and quality criteria must remain stable. It is this stability that enables the team to find its bearings, even when the form of support varies from one person or subject to another.

A manager can switch from a directive to a delegative stance without calling into question the collective vision or expectations. What counts is consistency: "My support changes because the situation evolves, not because I change my mind". The implicit message: "My support adjusts, but our direction remains clear."

4. What can HR do to support this managerial posture?

Equipping managers (without overloading them)

Situational management doesn't require 5 days' training. It's based on a simple understanding of situations and the ability to speak clearly about them. What makes the difference is not theory, but putting it into practice at the right moment, with the right words.

HR can :

These tools enable us to better support managers in their day-to-day decision-making, without drowning them in abstract models.

Value the ability to adjust, not to control everything

Some managers think they have to master everything to be credible. But knowing when to support, when to let go and when to come back is a sign of maturity, not hesitancy.

It is useful for managerial culture to value :

  • The ability to explain posture choices.
  • Adjusting to the situation, not the mood.
  • The idea that there is no single "right posture", but a posture appropriate to each phase of work and each profile.

Situational leadership is neither an HR gimmick nor a fixed model. It's a practice that relies on listening, clarity and the ability to evolve one's coaching according to maturity, needs and context. The challenge is not to choose a style once and for all, but to keep a clear line in your objectives while remaining agile in your posture.

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